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"Christmas is optional"
Whilst Christmas can have positive associations for many people, for many others it can be a tricky time, fraught with pressures, family...
Kate and Alex
Dec 14, 20201 min read
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Resources for Challenging Times
In recent conversations with friends, family and those I work with, I have noticed an increase in questions/statements like "why do I...
Kate and Alex
Dec 10, 20201 min read
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#SelfCriticism #SelfCompassion!
A wonderful illustration of self criticism and self compassion by Melissa Hoban depicting the common relationship/dialogue between the two!
Kate and Alex
Oct 28, 20201 min read
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Eating: Encouraging intuition not obsession
Recent conversations about our relationship with food and eating led me back to the "Endangered Bodies" website...
Kate and Alex
Oct 1, 20201 min read
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Compassionate leadership
This recent tweet by Brene Brown is a great reminder that compassion is a powerful force for good if we can harness it and bring it to...
Kate and Alex
Sep 30, 20201 min read
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Threat responses and survival!
It can be all too easy to feel as though our emotions and bodies are working against us, creating anxiety, sense of unease/foreboding and...
Kate and Alex
Sep 4, 20201 min read
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Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse...
The "Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse" are four attributes Dr John Gottman believes are the enemy of a happy relationship. What starts as...
Kate and Alex
Aug 24, 20201 min read
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Authenticity
A recent short video by Susie Orbach on authenticity "Authentic bodies and Authentic feelings". A great watch and reminder of the...
Kate and Alex
Aug 21, 20201 min read
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Peace of Mind
A wise tweet from the Dalai Lama to start the day!
Kate and Alex
Aug 21, 20201 min read
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"This Too Shall Pass"
"I hope this book will inform and normalize what is often frightening about the different phases of life. If we have the courage to face...
Kate and Alex
Aug 7, 20201 min read
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"Compassion is absolute"
In a recent tweet, the ever wise Dennis Tirch highlights the importance of bringing compassion to all parts of our experience and to the...
Kate and Alex
Aug 3, 20201 min read
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"Feel your feelings..."
A great reminder by the brilliant Dennis Tirch of the importance of fully engaging with our feelings rather than "staying rational"....
Kate and Alex
Jul 16, 20201 min read
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"How to Fail"...
Elizabeth Day's "How to Fail" podcast is a favourite of mine. This week she interviewed the magnificently wise leading psychotherapist...
Kate and Alex
Jul 6, 20201 min read
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Shame - a brief "Explainer"
In this short video (just 9 mins!) Dr Stan Steindl presents a brief "explainer" of Prof Paul Gilbert's evolutionary and biopsychosocial...
Kate and Alex
Jun 29, 20201 min read
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Compassion and Safe Relating - Talks 14 & 15: Developing our compassionate minds/selves
The two latest videos in Prof Paul Gilbert's brilliant series on the development of compassion and its application amidst the current...
Kate and Alex
Jun 22, 20201 min read
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Compassion and Safe Relating - Talk 13: Interview with William Kirby
An interesting interview with William Kirby (specialist respiratory physiotherapist) about the challenges of COVID-19, reflecting on his...
Kate and Alex
Jun 22, 20201 min read
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Compassion for the dark side...
This webinar by Professor Paul Gilbert has never been more relevant in today's scary times - understanding and developing compassion of...
Kate and Alex
May 12, 20201 min read
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Compassion and Safe Relating - Talks 11 & 12: Working with Self Criticism
Talks 11 & 12 of Prof Paul Gilbert's recent webinar series in relation to COVID-19. In these talks he focuses on how we might work with...
Kate and Alex
May 5, 20201 min read
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Compassion and Safe Relating - Talks 9 & 10: Empathy/compassion for others and Attention/Mindfulness
Talks 9 & 10 of Prof Paul Gilbert's series of recent webinars in relation to COVID-19. Watch here: https://vimeo.com/406589972...
Kate and Alex
May 5, 20201 min read
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Compassion and Safe Relating - Talks 7 & 8: Linking Mind and Body and Thinking in Compassion
Here are talks 7 & 8 in Prof Paul Gilbert's excellent series of webinars, focused on the development of our compassionate mind and...
Kate and Alex
May 5, 20201 min read
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