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Compassion and Safe Relating - Talk 6: Understanding our Emotions
The sixth talk in Prof Paul Gilbert's lecture series focusing on the value of compassion during the current pandemic. In this talk he...
Kate and Alex
Apr 24, 20201 min read
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Compassion and Safe Relating - Talk 5: Imagining our Compassionate selves
The fifth talk in Prof Paul Gilbert's recent webinar series on the value of compassion during the COVID-19 crisis. In this talk he...
Kate and Alex
Apr 24, 20201 min read
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Compassion and Safe Relating - Talk 4: Helping the Body Support the Mind
The fourth talk in Prof Paul Gilbert's recent webinar series on the value of compassion during the COVID-19 crisis. In this talk he...
Kate and Alex
Apr 10, 20201 min read
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Compassion and Safe Relating - Talk 3: The body and brain
Here is Prof Paul Gilbert's third talk in the series, focusing on the body and brain. Find it here: https://vimeo.com/404061234
Kate and Alex
Apr 8, 20201 min read
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Compassion and Safe Relating - Talk 2: Evolution and nature
The second talk by Prof Paul Gilbert, focusing on the evolved mind and nature, our tricky brains and the need for compassion. Find it...
Kate and Alex
Apr 7, 20201 min read
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Compassion and Safe Relating - Talk 1: Introduction
The first in a series of talks by Professor Paul Gilbert on the nature of compassion, fear, safe relating and world change: "how...
Kate and Alex
Apr 6, 20201 min read
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Compassionate Mind: An interview with Professor Paul Gilbert
A great watch for those new to Compassion Focused Therapy (CFT) and a helpful reminder to those already familiar with the core concepts....
Kate and Alex
Mar 30, 20201 min read
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COVID-19 and shifts in functioning
This video by Dr Bruce Perry explains how our functioning shifts as we become stressed or distressed and may help us to understand why...
Kate and Alex
Mar 27, 20201 min read
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Coronavirus: Responding to COVID 19 - compassion is key
These are unprecedented, scary times. As COVID 19 hits our lives it is normal and understandable to feel threatened and fearful. The...
Kate and Alex
Mar 24, 20201 min read
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Opening a Dialogue
This article written by Dirk Corstens, Rufus May and Eleanor Longden explores and describes "voice dialogue" work - a therapeutic...
Kate and Alex
Feb 18, 20201 min read
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Fierce Compassion
A fantastic article by the wonderful Kristen Neff and Chris Germer about the "yin and yang" of compassion: "When most people think of...
Kate and Alex
Dec 13, 20191 min read
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Managing Flashbacks
This article by Carolyn Spring (Positive Outcomes for Dissociative Survivors; PODS) is an excellent introduction to flashbacks - what...
Kate and Alex
Dec 9, 20191 min read
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The pursuit of happiness...
This short animation by Steve Cutts is a great example of the "rat race" we can all recognise in our quest for happiness through the...
Kate and Alex
Nov 15, 20191 min read
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Trust your Compassionate Self
Our compassionate minds can offer us the wisdom to know what we really need in any given situation, and of course this can differ across...
Kate and Alex
Oct 2, 20191 min read
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Not your choice, not your fault
A very useful reminder from the ever wise and compassionate Dennis Tirch
Kate and Alex
Sep 20, 20191 min read
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Anger, Compassion and what it means to be strong...
A brilliant TED talk by Russell Kolts, exploring the courage it takes to connect with vulnerability and the value of compassion: True...
Kate and Alex
Sep 2, 20191 min read
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"Compassion for Voices: a tale of courage and hope"
This video by Charlie Heriot-Maitland, Kings College London, is a great example of Compassion Focused Therapy (CFT) in action. It...
Kate and Alex
Aug 26, 20191 min read
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Grief. Why the idea of 'moving on' often isn't helpful
An excellent and very moving Ted Talk by Nora McInerny about her experiences of grief She highlights how we don't move on from the people...
Kate and Alex
Aug 22, 20191 min read
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Who's fault is it?!
Blame. We all do it! It's a human way of getting rid of pain and distress when we're in threat. This great animation by Brene Brown...
Kate and Alex
Aug 12, 20191 min read
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Boundaries and Compassion
It can feel difficult to assert boundaries with others. We can feel as though we are being "selfish" or should be more caring and do more...
Kate and Alex
Aug 4, 20191 min read
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